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On April 7, 2010, Lisa passed away following complications of surgery in Mountain View, California. We are shocked and saddened by this loss and hope that you will post your memories and thoughts here for all of us to share. No memory is too small.
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-Greg Hausman
Lisa, you were always laughing and had input for any topic of discussion. The halls are empty and quiet without your voice. You have left a lasting impression at HOPE and with me. You will be missed greatly.
To Lisa,
When we were chatting after Kurt’s opening I remember seeing the picture of you (on facebook) with the beautiful, yellow flower in your hair. I thought what a great picture…what a great idea:) This is how I will remember you…smiling and happy. You made me feel better and reassured when I shared with you my frustration with fatigue issues. You were open, honest and caring. What wonderful qualities. I wish our paths would have crossed more often than they did.
My heart goes out to your family and friends. May your sweet soul be at peace.
Taffy
I wish I had the words to explain the sadness I feel at Lisa’s passing. I’ve know Lisa since we were teenagers, in fact I’ve known her more years of my life than not. Lisa was one of those friends that I never saw as much as I wanted to because of the distance between us, but always knew that if I ever needed her she would be there for me. Even though I’ve known her so long, she never stopped amazing me with her enthusiasm and talent. When I received the pictures she took at my wedding 5 years ago I was beyond impressed…they were even better than the ones taken by my fancy photographer! Lisa always put her heart and soul into everything she did! I feel extremely blessed to have known her and will miss her terribly! My heart goes out to Lynn and all of Lisa’s family and friends!
I have known Lisa since I began this program in 2007. She was always so nice and kind and had such a great passion for psychology. I am so grateful to have known her, and for have been fortunate to hear her story in my Group course here at SCU. She went through so many health troubles and still managed to be so cheerful and optimistic. She was also very kind and understanding, and constantly checked up on me to make sure I was “ok” and doing well. I’ll miss that. She also inspired me to be a better person, better friend, better daughter, better therapist. I can only hope to be half the woman she was. I will miss her friendship, her smile, and her ever cheerful personality. I will miss her greatly.
I am shocked and saddened by this terrible news. Although my friendship with Lisa was short, I will always remember her brightness. She was strongly devoted to her clients and always had the intent to be good and kind and gentle. She was taken too soon but had already accomplished a lifetime of good. You will be missed and not forgotten. Gina
Dear Lisa,
Thank you so much for our friendship. You helped me through a difficult transition; a new job, a new country. It was a difficult move that was made so much easier for knowing you. Your kindness, compassion, boundless energy and positivity were wonderful to be around. You filled the room with sunshine. I will miss you greatly! Maria xxx
Terrible shock to me and all of us at Hope CC.
Lisa loved PINK and pink appeared on her lunch bag, water container, and the pink clothes she wore. Will dearly miss her bubbly personality and excitement she brought to the work place.
Lisa,you could always figure out the most complicated rules to any board game, the directions to anyplace, and you could help whip up a party in a snap of the fingers. If you’ve ever had the privilege of tasting Lisa’s divine desserts, she was always trying something new. I remember the last party we were at together, I had just come over straight from work, and everyone was whooping it up. Why? Lisa was making up the mojitos! They could knock you off your feet! Thanks, Lisa, for introducing me to mojitos, and letting me come visit you when you were in Miami getting your first graduate degree. When I came for a visit, I got to meet your kitty Sabrina, and marvel at the lizards sunning themselves right outside your apartment. I’ll miss your lively presence, your quick wit, and your creative talents. You will be missed by all of us. -Cindy
I enjoyed getting to know Lisa in the short time I knew her. It was exciting to see her enthusiasm when she found success in helping her clients. Her sense of humor and passion for helping others will always be remembered. She will be missed!
I am really and truly bummed out at the early loss of a friend and classmate. Lisa was a really kind soul and good-hearted person. She will be missed by all.
My heart goes out to Lynn and the rest of Lisa’s family. I did not know Lisa all that well but she will be dearly missed. I will never forget the 4 of us (Lynn, Lisa, me and my Mom) going to E&O and spending some great Mother Daughter time together. Loving thoughts and prayers going out!!!
Dear Lisa,
I had my first class in the program with you (Health Psychology). I distincly remember your amazing passion for health and psychology when listening to you speak in class. I felt we were just starting to establish a friendship when we were chatting on facebook, just last week. I am so sad I didn’t get the opportunity to get to know you better. Now you are with God and the angels looking down upon us…you will be missed dearly!
I am so glad that I had the chance to visit with Lisa again at Brian’s wedding. What a loss, you will be missed.
In memory of Lisa Telford, our HOPE Counseling Center where Lisa interned will be closed Friday April 9 in honor of her and to allow space and time for healing. Lisa was such a vibrant and unique person. It is especially painful to lose such a bright light. She will be unforgettable. I hope we can all carry a part of her with us in our work with clients, and carry on and proselytize her mission of health psychology and living a full life, whatever one’s health issues are. She did this so well.
We remember her bright and optimistic presence, her great enthusiasm for work and for learning, her pleasure at the smallest thing, her strength and compassion in all her work, her wide-ranging academic and clinical skills, her hostessing ability, and lastly, her exceptional baking. She has brought us joy.
God bless Lisa,her Mom and Dad,family, friends and colleagues and give us strength to get through.
I was fortunate to know you in high school, and even more fortunate to have reconnected last year with you and our other Lynbrook band/Valkyrie friends. Lisa, your departure is tragic and far too early. You will be sorely missed.
Lisa,
I will always remember your smile and the smell of your fresh baked cookies. What a sweet way to take care of us here, at the Hope Counseling Center. I will always remember your compassion towards our clients, and your genuine interest and friendly attitude towards your co-workers.
You will always be in my heart.
Anna
Rest in Peace. I’m so happy I got to know you if it were only a little while. My thoughts are with your family, I can’t image the pain they must be going thru.
Phyllis
Lisa and I shared some lovely times together while vacationing with family in Telluride and the Oregon coast. As with many others, my heart broke into pieces when I learned of her unexpected passing. I’ll always remember her as a creative person with a bright smile.
Lisa, I am honored to have been your sister-in-law. You will be missed dearly.
Katie
Sweet Lisa,
I have known you since you were very young and was so excited to see you last year at Brian’s wedding. You were the perfect big sister. I remember you helping me to set up the wedding space. It was like we had never been apart. My heart is hurting as it so for so many. You will be greatly missed. With much love, Aunt Leslie
Although I did not know Lisa well, I enjoyed her wit and comments in the classes I shared with her at Santa Clara University in the Counseling Psychology program.
My heart and prayers go out to all of Lisa’s family and friends at the news of her unexpected passing.
Rebekah
Lisa had such a good heart and a ready word of encouragement for everyone. I’m sorry she’ll miss her much deserved graduation, but she will be remembered there.
My prayers go out to all Lisa’s family, friends, and boyfriend.
I have many memories of Lisa as I have known her since she was in high school. She was such an amazing talented young woman. I appreciate all the recipes she shared, the scrap booking lessons and the help she gave me in French. She had such a zest for life that I find it difficult to believe she is gone. My mother shared a memory with me too. Lisa had come to my 40th birthday a little over four years ago and a few of the guys, including my dad and brothers, had started a poker game. Lisa told my mom, ” I hope you won’t think bad of me but I am going to play poker.” My mom said “If it were any other night I’d play too.” Lisa had so many interests. Our hearts and prayers are with Lynn and and all of those whose lives Lisa touched.
I had psychology of multiculturalism with Lisa, and despite the natural tension that arose from class discussions, she always exhibited warmth, caring and a genuine interest in understanding the experiences and feelings of others. Rest in peace Lisa.
When I think of all the moments that Lisa and I shared, while roommates from 1996 – 1998 and during the 12 years since, I am honestly at a loss for words to describe how I feel knowing that she is no longer here. A testament to her kind, warm spirit was the way that my cat, Amber, took to her immediately. I have never met anyone like Lisa – generous, thoughtful, creative, patient, selfless, and yet bubbly, vivacious, and friendly, too. Lynn – you raised an amazing daughter and she loved you so dearly. She was a reflection of you and your nurturing of her unique spirit. I miss you, Lisa ……… please give Amber a cuddle for me. I know she has already found her way to your lap.
Lisa was quick to pipe into CPSY discussions with intelligent substance, cutting edge insight, and passion. I personally feel lucky to have been challenged, inspired and encouraged through her in regards to the health psych field, as she was further ahead of me in the program and one of the first students who I looked up to, as I entered the program this past fall. I believe that we can all learn from Lisa through her “on fire” approach to life in anything I have seen her do/anyone I have seen her interact with. I feel so lucky to have known you, Lisa, although it feels too short. My thoughts and prayers are with Lisa’s family and those closest to her. We will miss you so much.
I am so terribly saddened by the loss of my friend Lisa and yet am eternally grateful to have experienced her as a friend over the last two and a half years. She was the first person I met during SCU’s counseling psych orientation. Since then, I was blessed to have her ad part of many of my courses. She and I developed a friendship that spanned far beyond psychology and academics. She knew a lot about me and genuinely liked me anyway. This is what makes a true friend. We shared many laughs, some heartaches and sorrows. I owe her a dinner…. I hope to pay next time around. I miss you terribly Lisa. I hope you are free from suffering of this world. Metta to you my dear dear friend.
Dear Lisa,
I think it will help me to get my thoughts and feelings out here and for others to see how influential you have been in my journey through our grad program at Santa Clara. Where do I even begin to express my gratitude to you? From the first class I had with you, you caught my eye. Who was this woman pulling her powder blue rolling backpack, taking elevators where needed, so vocal in class discussions, bubbly and enthusiastic, tap tap tapping away at your laptop, taking such copious notes? I wasn’t sure. We exchanged polite words between us but nothing significant at first.
The turning point came when I had you in group counseling. We were placed in the same group and I heard much more about your life and saw your heart. I began to learn about your long battle with your health and we felt the common bond between us. Much didn’t even need to be said, we saw it in each others’ eyes. The aches, pains, exhaustion, struggle, guard, happy face, and fear was communicated. We both understood the daily battle of chronic pain. We both had experienced much loss in our life. We both had the intention to experience life to the fullest, more aware that our future was uncertain. We learned we had similar experiences in our family life that allowed us to relate to each other deeper.
You had so much more experience and education in health psychology and I learned from you. I learned how important pain management is. I learned that I didn’t need to feel guilty about needing to spend an entire day in my pajamas, in bed, watching tv, reading, letting my body recuperate. I learned that I needed to take better care of myself. I wanted to pack/buy yummy food for our night classes. If I didn’t have any, you always wanted to share with me. You weren’t too proud (like I’ve been) to take the elevator, pull that roller backpack, etc, to be good to your body. You told me how Mindfulness Meditation was helping you. You asked for help and support when you needed it.
As I spent more time with you, I learned that you enjoyed so much of life. You loved going to The Rep, The Sharks, wine, chocolate, etc. You wanted to be loved and accepted and knew the key to that was TO love and accept. You wanted me to find someone special to love, the way you had. You gave me many physical hugs but even when I didn’t get one, you had this way of making me feel hugged by your presence. You welcomed me into your life. You called/texted me to meet you at Blondie’s Fro Yo before/between/after class. You invited me to your yearly holiday parties that you and your mom went ALL out for. SO many goodies to enjoy! You introduced me to your friends and made me feel welcome, apart of your “family”. I felt fully accepted by you.
We are SO excited to graduate. How tough these years have been. How much time and effort went into it. How much it has changed us. You put so much time and effort into finding the best placement for next year. I rejoiced with you when you got the prized position at El Camino Hospital. People often recognized how special and qualified you were. You were asked to be a co-group leader without even having to take the advanced class and secured a practicum site that actually paid something.
LUCKY! 😉
I will miss you alot! You were SO excited to come to my grad party in June and kept asking me about it, making sure you had the date saved. It won’t be the same without you. Life will go on, but I will take your influence with me, to my clients, in dealing with my health, in learning to love more deeply, in learning more about our field, and in being a student and participator in life.
Thank you.
Lisa’s enthusiasm for learning, her caring, and her brilliance were just a few of the many gifts she shared with us. It was so exciting to follow each step of her journey through our program and to see the outlines of the great future that was promising to unfold. To have all that end now is tragic, but reading through what all of us have written here, I can see that Lisa’s legacy will be as extraordinary as her lived life, and that her legacy will extend far into the future. We will not forget her and I know that her spirit and inspiration will be with us for the rest of our lives.
Thank you Lisa for these many gifts and for being such a wonderful presence in my life.
Lisa was one of those people you feel so fortunate to meet and become friends with. She was always so positive and hopeful that it made you happy just to be around her. Her love of life was obvious and she shared that with everyone she met. It seems impossible that someone so young and vital is no longer with us and our community.
Lisa, you will be missed and thought of often. All my love!
Lisa,
Your enthusiasm was contagious and your appreciation of life an inspiration. You have touched so many of us, in the CPSY program and beyond, with your humor, compassion and vibrance. I am grateful to have had a glimpse of your bright shining light.
I was deeply touched by the sad and tragic news. I haven’t known Lisa very well but had lunch with her at the recent Compassion in Action Conference at SCU. She spoke highly and enthusiastically about her traineeship at HOPE and her graduation. Her radiant energy and smile would never convey that something was bothering her. Her positive attitude toward life would be certainly be missed and remembered.
We are so saddened about Lisa’s passing. Our hearts go out to Aunt Lynn, Uncle Doug & Aunt Lynne and her many friends. We have enjoyed sharing life on Facebook with Lisa this past year and reading about all the great things in life that were going her way.
And Brett- thank you for many Lisa’s life so happy! It’s just not fair and we feel so sad. Wishing you strength.
Lisa- you will be missed and we love you.
There wasn’t a day when I saw Lisa that wasn’t brightened.
Lisa, in the CPSY program, filled with so many goodhearted people, you still stood out to me as an amazingly bubbly, golden-hearted person. Few could match your positivity and genuineness. I am so truly honored and grateful to have known you and been a small part in your amazing life. I thank you for your passion for our work and our program- at times when I find myself doubting the work or the program, I think of you. Your passion and commitment encourages me to continue to value it. We will think of you often and miss you sorely. Your spirit was truly bright and anyone who experienced it was lucky.
My heart goes out to your family and Brett.
See response from Christy above. I am Christy’s mom and I had the pleasure of spending a great evening with Lynn, Lisa and my daughter, Christy at E&O. We so enjoyed the evening that we said we would do this again and unfortunately never did…Christy worked with Lynn and always talked about me and Lynn was always talking about Lisa and that is what prompted our get together because of the close bond Lynn and I had with our daughters. My heart is just breaking and I can’t imagine what Lynn is going through. I am blessed I had the opportunity to spend that evening together and get to meet Lisa. I, too, remember her enthusiasm as we talked about everything we could fit into a perfect night. From the responses above I see that Lisa touched so many lives and will leave a void in the hearts of all those she touched. I am tryly saddened for everyone’s loss!
Dear Lisa, As so many have said in their own words you were a shining light. A light that has been extinguished far too early. I admired your dedication, your love for learning, your intellect, and your deep compassion. I have many fond memories of you and I was really looking forward to this quarter with you. I lit up when I saw you in psychopharm. That is what you did, you shared your passion for life with others just with a simple smile. You gave me such comfort in our 219 group. As a co-leader you held our collective pain. You were an amazing therapist and a colleague, so deeply ethical, full of understanding, you helped me grow. I am praying for your family and loved ones. You will be missed so deeply.
Lisa (aka: my fellow scarf enthusiast),
I am still in shock…I don’t understand how a young, intelligent, beautiful, vibrant, caring woman with so much potential could go so soon? It’s not fair. In the short time that we’ve worked together, I’ve enjoyed sharing our love of scarves, talking about our future goals, grad school, and especially 80’pop culture. To now know the illness that you endured, you are an inspiration to me. You seemed to live life to the fullest, never complaining, and showing compassion for everyone around you. You were a natural counselor and I was in awe at the way you worked with your clients. There is so much more I wanted to learn from you and so many more baked goods to enjoy. You have some big shoes to fill and I know it will be difficult for the office to adjust to this loss. I will miss our random conversations…and strive to always honor your work.
To Lisa’s loved ones: she ALWAYS spoke fondly of you…her family and Brett. The stories are so fresh in my mind…how her and her mother grew into Sharks fans and the love and partnership she shared with Brett were all too sweet. May your memories give you strength.
Dear Lisa,
You were my very first best friend. To learn about your passing saddens me in a place deep within. I remember getting into trouble for sneaking off to your house and not telling my parents about it. It was there that you read to me for the first time. I was mesmerized by this. I think we were 3.
I remember going to the movie theatre for the first time with you. We saw The Wizard of Oz at Century 22. It was my 4th birthday. My father took us.
You will always be a beautiful spirit. Thank you for being in my life. Rest well. I will always love you.
Shani
Dear Lisa,
Your humility, generosity of spirit and enthusiasm touched me deeply. Your purity of heart was evident in every word, every gesture, every interaction I ever shared with you. I am deelpy saddened by your passing. And I am grateful to have known you, and experienced your presence.
Thank you for being an inspiration, your beautiful spirit will live on in all of us, and remind us of who we want to be.
Namaste,
Shauna
I am filled with sadness as I read memories from students who have been touched by Lisa here at SCU. I met Lisa when she was a co-leader in our lab-group supervision. She brought joy and enthusiasm to our group and provided holding and hope for many students. Lisa had a therapeutic personality.
Lisa is an inspiration to us all as we live our lives and reminds us of the impact we can and hope to have on others. We will miss you Lisa!
Dear Lisa, Lisa, Lisa …
I just saw and talked with you at some length at the Compassion In Action conference. You were the “usual” you. Full of enthusiasm, excitement, so positive. So looking forward to your new internship with the possibility of also staying with your current one. I had talked with you on several previous occasions about your health, some of which we shared, and your passion for doing this work and for working/helping people with long-term chronic pain or suffering. I know you were going to be terrific at whatever aspect of this work you did. I still know you would be terrific.
Too often things in this world make no sense, are so arbitrary. Your very existence is a reminder of how precious life is and how much we should value each other while we can. Thank you for being you. I love the line: “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” I value our past, current, and future friendship. Peace.
Joe
Lisa,
I was shocked to hear this sad news because I had seen you a couple weeks ago in class. We talked about being excited about graduation and the work it had taken to get there. I had the privilege to know you from the early part of the program through different classes we happen to coincide. It was my pleasure to have met you as a person and as a classmate.
Thank you for having the privilege of knowing you- Mayra
I originally met you in my first year at SCU but it wasn’t until this last year in practicum that I got to know you better. I enjoyed your enthusiasm, honesty, and the spirit your brought into discussions. It was a gift getting to know you and I will carry that with me. We had many “little buddha” moments in the last year and I will think of you each time one arises… Thank you.
Angel
Dearest Lisa,
You were an amazing inspiration to me throughout this program. I remember taking my first couple classes with you back in the days of 2007. Your energy and passion for this work was infectious! While part of me was wondering, “Damn, why can’t I get me some of that?!” The other part of me was saying, “Geez, this is something awesome to be in a program with folks like her!”
Looking back through some pictures I came across the Bubbles for Burma event we held close to campus. LOL We were short on supplies, yelling at cars, and hoping to dry towels on my car to keep with the business we had coming in. And you were there!
I remember the bright lovely scarves you wore and that one of a kind rolley backpack you always had! The last memory I do hold of you is when I ran into you at Starbucks with Rocio. We were doing our usual bitchin about COMPS, but I remember distinctly how you turned that outlook into some positive light and talked on about how we’ll be able to do all these “normal ppl” things when we get out — get married, earn money, etc. You always knew how to find the silver lining.
Lisa, you’ll always be part of this CPSY family. You’ve touched so many lives and it’s been such an honor to have known you for the time that I have. Help guide us other yahoo’s in this work you knew so well with the love and light you bring.
My heart goes out to your loved ones. Be in peace, Lisa.
Lisa,
While I did not know you well, I do feel shocked and saddened by your passing. Reflecting upon this loss reminds me of how precious every moment of our living experience is…even the moments filled with suffering. I do hope that your loved ones and those who were close to you are coping as best as they can with your loss. And if there is an after-life, I hope that you are moving along in the next stage of your journey with no hindrances.
Take Care…
Dear Sweet Lisa,
You were my step-daughter for almost 30 years and I loved you very much. Some of my fondest memories are:
That you were the maid of honor when your father and I married. You looked beautiful.
Shopping with you. You convinced me to spend the money for a Kate Spade red purse with polka dot interior. I loved that purse, carried it for years, and thought of you often when I used it.
Ski vacation in Telluride. You, Brian and Katie came in on the same bumpy plane. It was our first time meeting Katie and it was wonderful watching you bond with her.
Beach vacation in Oregon. You made your decadent macaroni and cheese. It was so yummy. You gave us the recipe and we have made it since.
I was so glad we were FB friends because it helped me keep up on your life.
You have made a large imprint on my life and I will miss you very much.
Love, Lynne
Dear Lisa,
I have been at such a loss for words these last few days – I just can’t believe that you are gone. It has been such a joy to know you in the many CPSY classes we shared. What has been said here by your friends and family speaks volumes about the beautiful, compassionate, generous, loving person you were. You always had a smile and a kind word to share. The few weeks that you were my 14 year old daughter in Family class were really sweet and special, even if we were just role-playing.
You and your family are in my heart and prayers. Your optimism, enthusiasm and joy of life will always be an inspiration to me.
Dear Lisa,
I resisted coming to this site for a few days because I knew that it would make me tear up. Now that I am here and read some of the posts, I am so delighted to read the incredibly kind words and memories that everyone has of you. You brought such joy to my life and to all of our lives. You will be missed as a beautiful friend, daughter, family member, girlfriend, colleague, therapist, classmate, and so much more. I know that even though the current times are filled with tears, we all have wonderful memories of you in our hearts that will last.
Peace,
Jen
Dear Lisa,
As I walked into my practicum class and saw the solemn look upon everyone’s faces, I was prepared for bad news. However, nothing could quite prepare me for what I was about to hear. “Lisa passed last night” escaped the lips of my professor. Those were very difficult words to hear. I had just seen you in class not too long before. We were talking about how excited we both were for graduation. I recall you assuring me that things would get better with my placement, and I would be sure to find something better after graduation. You were always so bright and cheery. I knew if I was having a bad day and I saw you in class, you’d have something positive to say that would make me feel better. I also knew that if I was in need of some “pick me up food”, you’d have chocolate to share. Each of us took notes on our laptops, and it was nice to know I wouldn’t have to fight for a plug because you willingly would give up your plug for a bit so I could charge mine. It was wonderful to have had you in my life over these past few years of graduate school. You’re positive and delightful outlook was always refreshing. It is quite sad that I will not be seeing you at graduation, especially with all the hard work you had put in. Although you won’t be there physically, you will be there in my heart. Thank you for the moments we’ve shared. I only wish they were not so short lived.
Love Always,
Alison Silvius
Sweet Lisa,
Someone up there must have some terribly pressing and important things for you to do to take you so soon . . . Must have have been your pure, infectious smile and true sense of self. I surely hope your wise spirit graces our presence again, very soon . . .
Lisa,
It is difficult to imagine the future without you there. While we weren’t close until we were older, your name was a part of my life for longer than I remember. I will be forever grateful that I spent most of Christmas day with you and your mom. Your laugh and excitement as we shared stories and our hopes for our futures will never leave my memory. And I will cherish the moment you opened the earrings my mom gave you and the smile it put on her face to see how much you loved them.
Even though you are not here, I know that you are aware of what an amazing and positive influence you had on so many lives. A part of you will always be with me. I will remember to smile, remember to laugh, remember that the Sharks are the greatest hockey team forever, and a Christmas will not go by without the purchase of liquor chocolate bottles because they are the best. Thank you for your life and thank you for changing mine.
Vanessa
Who can not love a person who makes chocolate fudge brownie pops. I’m so grateful to have known and worked with Lisa. She’s one of the most vibrant and spirited person I have ever met. I will miss her so..
Lisa had a passion for the care of persons with long-term health conditions–and had planned on making this a focus in her career (among other interests! She had many I’m discovering). We had communicated several times by email but had only met once. She was excited to come to work for my department (behavioral health services), and was undaunted by any challenge. “Let’s see what we can do to have El Camino Hospital set the pace for chronic disease management” was one quote, pretty gutsy for an intern but that was Lisa. As I look over her writings (she also sent me a term paper—an “A” grade of course!)I was struck by the could-have-beens for this remarkable young woman. But as I read the above notes from those who knew her well I am even more struck by the what-she-dids. It is a life that deserves much celebration and a reminder to us all to carry on the work of our own lives, whatever it be, to help others.
Lisa,
I look at your profile picture on FB every day… I remember that day very well… I took the picture. I also enjoyed being your wedding roomie… I have lots of fun memories… always smiling… always happy. You will be missed…
I promise to take very good care of Carrie for you…
xoxoxox
Elise
Dearest Lisa,
As I reflect on memories we have shared, I’m reminded of your bright smile and amazing spirit. Your gift for noticing the feelings of others and always lending an empathic ear and generous heart to anyone who ever needed a lift, including myself. I enjoyed reflecting on our program and practicum experiences together. Laughing at the level of patience and sometimes ridiculous nature of “life as an intern”. I remember trading your amazing fudge truffles for my banana bread at a winter break celebration at Olga’s. I remember eating your sinful brownies at Alaina’s house while discussing our mutual love for The Goonies. Your kindness and mindful nature is something I will carry with me forever. You are dearly missed by us all. The field and the world lost one of its greats. You will never be forgotten.
Dear Lisa
We just met- what stands out are some shared moments. With some people it doesn’t matter how much/little time you spend together; it’s the quality and intensity while connecting as human beings. You had a wonderful gift- you are a natural healer.
Love and Peace
Blanka
Lynn,
I have just now heard the news. You will stay in my prayers and my wonderful memories of Lisa will stay in my heart.
Some of my favorite memories of Lisa…
– Many SCU parties (undergrad, many moons ago) I still can’t drink tequila!
– Shannon’s wedding in Portland
– Alyce’s wedding party in Monterey
– Our Vegas girls trip when we turned 30…ah, the Bellagio fountains, a bottle of wine and great girlfriends catching up
– Our Dallas trip, spending 1 1/2 days with the girls before telling you guys that I was pregnant (it was hard not to tell you on the plane!)
– My baby shower and going to Petroglyph afterwards with the girls
– You keeping me company with a newborn, watching me and helping me try to get Samantha to sleep
– Celebrating Christmas with you and Lynn at your annual gathering, and Samantha asking every guest to take her back to pet the cats
– And how could anyone have a list of Lisa memories without mentioning the Sharks…I am so lucky that we saw each other at the 3/28 game. As I was walking down the sidewalk after the game with Samantha on my shoulders, I heard your familiar voice. I showed you the picture of Sharkie eating Samantha’s head, and you loved it. That picture is already on my laptop desktop, and now everytime I see it, I will think of you. Please help many winning pucks go in the net during the playoffs.
Your laughter, smile, and generous heart will be missed. Lynn, my thoughts are with you.
Love,
Val
Dear Lisa,
As you knew so well, education is a gift, classmates even more so. Thank you for walking with me. Sounds like heaven is in need, thanks for intervening on all of our behalf.
Your smile reflected,
Aaron
Dear Lisa,
The first time we met was 7 or 8 years ago at a Halloween party. You were dressed up as Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz and were full of spunk and good cheer. We always had fun conversations and I remember you teasing me about my “made up” wife, because I attended events without her several times.
I will miss our conversations and gatherings won’t be the same without you there.
God bless,
John
Dearest Lynn – Loving Mother of Lisa:
I didn’t know Lisa, but I think in some way I did know her. I’ve seen pictures. We’ve shared talks about Motherhood. One thing is for sure – Lisa was blessed! You had a beautiful and loving relationship. Lynn, I cannot imagine your pain. I too share her nickname of “Dorothy” from the Wizard of Oz! Well, guessI did know her after all! May she forever skip down the beautiful “Yellow Brick Road”…her rainbow awaits!
God Bless!
Dian Elizabeth Warnecke Burke
I am shocked and so very sad to have to say good bye to a wonderful person. We have had so many wonderful memories growing up. We were best friends when we were little.. Our parents couldnt get us apart.Lynn I love you and am so sorry for your lose. I wish i lived closer i would love to give you a hug and tell you everything will be ok. She was a wonderful person and friend and we will all see her again one day in heaven.. God bless Lisa… love you now and forever….
Lisa,
I didn’t have the pleasure of getting to know you as well as I would have liked. We had a class together just last quarter and I remember thinking what an intelligent, open and vibrant person you were and what an awesome therapist you would be. Even though I didn’t know you well, the world definitely seems like a different place without your presence. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this intensely painful time.
Dear Lisa,
You were always so passionate about everything! I remember just talking to you for a loonnng time about computers and retrieving documents that get accidentally erased! Then, we chatted for a while about random things. How easy it was to talk with you and I am sad that I didn’t do it more often. You always had something to say and it didn’t matter what the subject matter was. I’ll miss the “hi’s” and “bye’s” in class since you always had a smile and something positive to share. Who is going to feed my facebook pet now? You were the only one that would do it. I’ll miss that too. Lisa, may you rest in peace, my prayers are with your loved ones.
Dear Lynn,
While I never had the pleasure of meeting Lisa, I was able to learn a little about her and the loving relationship you from our conversations during Giants and Shark games we attended together. It was wonderful to see how your relationship with Lisa transcended that of parent and child to that of being friends. Having had that relationship with my dad, I know how special it was for the two of you. Having read all of the postings from those who were close to Lisa it is clear that she was blessed with intellect, humor, a love of anything chocolate and many dear and loving friends. May her memory be a blessing and may God bless and give you strength during this time of your loss.
Lisa-
I had such a great time getting to know you and becoming your friend. It was always so much fun hanging out with you and making each other laugh. You will be truly missed and I will keep memories of you always.
All my best to your family during this tough time,
Maya
Lisa is a sweet memory in my mind going back to when she was in grade school and I was her Brownie leader. Lisa and Shelley, our daughter, were just the best of girlfriends and so much fun to watch grow up. When we moved to Southern California we sure did missed both Lisa and Lynn.
My heart goes out to Lynn and Lisa’s dad, I just can’t imagine loosing a daugher as such a young age. Lisa is a wonderful memory for me and I will love her forever. Lynn will need everyone’s help to learn to live without Lisa and I sure hope all of you California friends can help with that. With abundant love and support from the lake in Texas, Sue
Dear Lisa,
There are no words to describe what an amazing person you are. From day one when we met, you were just as friendly and bubbly, making us feel like we have been friends forever. Every occasion, including the birth of our daughter Olivia, you and your mom Lynn have been so sweet to give us such wonderful gifts and yummy treats. You loved our dog Mika like she was your own, giving her treats, playing with her and giving her lots of love. You have touched so many lives and will touch even more lives wherever you are. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. We will miss you!
Brian, Alicia, Olivia and Mika
Being friends with Brett Schmidt and his family, I had the privilege of getting to know Lisa through some of their family gatherings. She simply was a joy to be around and had a way of making people feel good about themselves. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to Brett and to Lisa’s family.
Lisa,
I will always keep a bright positive memory of you. I will pray for your family and friends who will miss you deeply as well as everyone here at HOPE.
Rebeca Carrillo
My thoughts are with Doug, Lynne and all of Lisa’s family and many friends. I never had the pleasure of meeting Lisa, but heard many wonderful things about her. It’s obvious from the many memories here that she was loved by many who will keep her alive in their hearts.
Rest in peace, Lisa.
Lisa,
I only had a couple opportunities to hang out with you, but I felt I got to know you over the years through Michelle. I’m so sorry to hear of your untimely passing. I’ll be praying for your family.
Lynn:
Today is the memorial for Lisa. Anne and I are so sorry we cannot be there physically, but will be there in spirit. You are a dear friend, but I personally had the privilege of being around Lisa only once; on a day we spent with you at your home. But I know a lot about her as reflected through your eyes. You and I have spoken about my pain over the loss of my adult son now eight years ago, but we never imagined that we would have to share the same experience. In reading over all the touching messages above, the strength of her personality and how she touched us all is glaringly and sadly apparent.
Although she is gone from this existence, her presence lives on in our own family, most of whom never met Lisa. Since one of our family members is a vegetarian, at every big meal, (thanksgiving, Xmas, Easter, etc) we have “Lisa’s special mac and cheese”, for which we all fight to get a portion. Love, George
We are so incredibly saddened that you are gone. Our neighbor for many years, you were a bright spot in our day whenever we met, either at the mailbox, in the driveway, at the house. You were always so cheerful, vibrant, always smiling. You were a joy to know. We found it hard to believe you were ever sick. We feel a great loss in your passing.
Lisa
I am so thankful for having been able to share so many wonderful times together.
Lisa
Thank you for being such a fabulous part of my life …
Living together in timberleaf for two years, sharing BBQ, Birthdays, studying crazy fun memories
When you came to visit me in Germany and we traveled to Paris and Bamburg, Nurnburg. your first international adventure.
Hearing all the stories of your antics in Miami.
Traveling to portland so we could go shopping, go to the zoo, and stay up late together talking.
I am so thankful for having been able to share so many wonderful times together.
Lisa,
Working with your mom is wonderful, but one of the best parts of that was getting to know you. You are so loved by so many and will be remembered always. And your cooking/baking…Your mom was always bringing us some beautiful yummy treat. The first few times I’d ask “Where’d you buy these”, then just stopped asking because the answer was always, “Lisa made them.”
But even more than your culinary abilities, you will be remembered for your smile, your laugh and your compassion. You will truly live on in everyone who met you.
Love,
Jennifer
Dear Lynn: Although I only knew Lisa for a short time, I think from the comments from her friends and acquaintances on this site that she touched each person’s life in a truly special way. Everyone talks of her passion and fun and enthusiasm for life, and how dedicated she was to her career path. I remember the “gigglefest” we had after Carrie’s wedding-in-the mist, joking about how glamorous we looked with our dripping hair and running mascara. What fun we had and how I looked forward to visiting with her again. What I know about Lisa is that her beauty, her joy, her love of life has left a lasting impression on all who knew her. I will think of her now each time I see a daffodil in my yard. Please know that I hold you both in my heart, with love, Sherry in Redding
I was hoping one day to be Lisa’s sister in law. It was clear from the first time I saw her and Brett together they were a good fit. I was only able to meet her a handful of times, but I knew that she would be a great addition to our family and I was happy to have another girl in the mix of the Schmidt family. Lisa was truly a lovely person, who had such a kind and joyous attitude towards everyone. She had fun playing with our little girl Abby and I can still see her using a stacking cup as a top hat. Abby has a little duck that Lisa gave her and we will cherish that always, every time it quacks we will hear her great laugh. I know how much Brett loved her and even though I didn’t get to know her very well, what I saw made me love her too. I will be praying for Lynn and Lisa’s dad and the rest of the family. So sorry I couldn’t be there today.
Love,
Rachel
Lisa was one of those people you could tell right away had an exceptionally kind heart. When you met her, the first thing you saw was her smile. That’s how I will remember her, smiling and cheerful always. She was sweet and sincere and she will be terribly missed by those lucky enough to have known her.
Happy birthday Lisa, I will always remember the fun and good times we have had over the years. And thank you for being a good friend to Michelle. I just can’t believe I won’t see you again so I won’t. I know in some future place and time we will all be together again.
Your Friend
John
I’ve waited to post on this wall. I met Lisa 4/5 years ago at the Starlite ballroom. We took waltz classes together. From that point, I began to go to an occasional holiday party. After awhile we reconnected on Facebook. She became my hockey buddy, and a true friend! 🙂
Story – About 9 months ago I tried my hand at a start-up which didn’t start. I was/am making big change in my life. I had the opportunity to talk to Lisa for several hours about all of this. Any time I had an interview, or something important happen, she would show her support. Why? Because that’s what Lisa does. She was a great help to me. When describing Lisa to others, I often used the term “…and there’s not a bad thing I could say about her – she was just terrific.” And that’s really it. She was just terrific, and we’ll all miss her.
~Todd
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On a side note, thanks to John, Michelle, Carrie, and the others whom I met at the service. You are all terrific.
Lisa,
I’m very sorry you’re gone. For me, you were not someone I saw all the time nor had a close friendship with. But when you came around to see your mom at the office, you always made me feel like we were friends and that we’d just seen each other yesterday. You are an extraordinary soul and it surprises me not at all that so many people have been touched by you, just as you touched me.
One sweet memory I have is when you came down to the office and we took little Matthew Ghan out to coffee with us. We all three talked about how the Sharks were doing, and you made Matthew feel so grown up, coming out to coffee with the adults. You are a kind person. That is the best compliment I can think to say about someone.
Ben
Lisa,
I still can’t believe you are gone. You are truly a caring, empathetic, and fun person, always willing to listen and be supportive, often ready with a great story to tell. I remember sailing and how much you loved sitting high on the rail seat watching everything go by (I think we called it “supervising” at the time). I remember writing silly limericks for your birthdays, trying to rhyme the name “Lisa” which I found increasingly hard to do as time went on without repeating the same things.
Most of all I remember your presence at get-togethers and I know they will always be missing something without you. But maybe somehow knowing that you always would have been there will make it easier to believe you are still there, in our hearts.
Love,
Greg
Lisa,
You were always one of my favorite patients. Despite a continual struggle with your health, you chose an optimistic view of life. You knew how to love your friends and enjoy sharing time with them. Your eyes danced with happiness when things were going well with you, and when things were more difficult you did not loose your compassion or your love of life. Good for you!